Documented Life     An Autodocumentary     Miles Hochstein

 

Provenance: Personal Collection - The card is labeled"85" because the entire 1984-1985 academic year (of taf-shin-mem-heh", or 5755) was referred to by this number, but the picture would indeed have been taken in September or October of 1984.

 

 

In the first half of 1984 I continued my second semester of studies at Pardes, a coeducational institute of Jewish studies in Jerusalem.

During that period I reconnected with my friend David Nelson, whom I had met a few years earlier at Reed, and I met his future wife, and her family.

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That's me on the left holding the pole.

Provenance: Photo processing date January 1985. The wedding took place on Hanukah, 1984, in Tzfat, if I recall correctly.

Around September or October of 1984, I moved to Haifa, where I enrolled in a computer science program at "Israel's MIT", the Technion. Given my still minimal Hebrew skills, it would be reasonable to ask if I was out of my mind.

The answer to this reasonable question would be "yes."  Yes I was insane to try it, and yes trying it made me even crazier.   I was extremely unhappy and returned to Jerusalem, and lived for a time with a fellow named Andy Moses in Talpiot Mizrach (East Talpiot).

As indicated on the card, my address in Haifa was 66 Bavel (Babel) Street.  In a place replete with biblical ironies, the truncated "sign of the beast" (the number "66" in Christian mythology) and the name of the historic place of exile and sorrow, "Babylon" or Bavel, seems now very appropriate. I could have known from my address alone that in Haifa I had reached at least an upper level of hell.

Above: David Nelson (z'l) and Tamar, probably very shortly after their marriage. I've never stopped thinking about David or Tamar.

There was however one very happy event in 1984, the marriage of my good friend David Nelson to Tamar Yehuda in the city of Tzfat (Sfad). In the photo above I am holding a chuppa pole. Also visible behind David are his mother and father, and right, is Natan Margalit, and many others whom I do not recognize. David died tragically less than 2 years later and Tamar remarried. I often wonder how she is doing. I must locate her, and meet David's son.

 

Friends begin a home